How to Talk to Kids About Sexual Assault

Sadly, in this world, it’s important for parents to talk to their Children About Sexual Abuse. It’s scary to think that perpetrators of this heinous crime may be in your midst, but these difficult conversations are necessary. Equipping your child with the knowledge to stop or report Sexual Abuse can be an invaluable tool for their well-being.

Empower Them to Say “No”

Children can be scared to stand up to an adult and tell them “no.” Their entire lives, they’re taught to follow the instruction of grown-ups, and this advice goes completely against that lesson. But as a parent, it’s up to you to explain when it’s okay for a child to say “no” to an adult. If they feel uncomfortable doing something, or if an adult wants to engage in behavior that feels wrong, it’s perfectly okay to say no and walk away.

Explain Private Body Parts

Explain to your child which body parts are private and should not be shared with other adults. This way they understand that certain types of touch are inappropriate.

You may have to make the distinction in certain situations, like how it’s okay when a parent is giving them a bath, or a doctor is giving them a check-up with a parent in the room. In other situations, they should know their private body parts should be covered, and others should not be exposing theirs.

Talk About Secrets

Many predators tell their victims to keep the abuse a secret. Children usually trust the authority of adults, so this can be an impact threat. As a parent, tell your child that no one should ask them to keep a secret about their body. Make sure your child understands that even if they’re told they’ll get in trouble, it’s okay to tell a trusted grownup.

Explain Boundaries

In a very basic way, go over appropriate vs. inappropriate behavior. Explain that it’s not okay for adults to interact with children in certain ways, and that these boundaries should exist with their peers, too. Older children can perpetrate sexual abuse, so it’s important for kids to be aware of this.

This information can empower children to understand and prevent abuse, a valuable lesson they’ll carry with them into adulthood. Our law firm has handled dozens of Sexual Abuse Lawsuits and settlements, so if you need to speak with professional legal counsel, please reach out!